How to use the Chopsticks
Think of the chopstick as a pair of prongs, the only difference being that there are two separate parts or sticks. One stick is held in stationary position and the other is moved.
If the stick has a thick and a thin end, hold
it so that the thick end is in your hand.
Place the first chopstick in the hollow between
thumb and index finger and rest its lower end below the first
joint of the third finger.
This chopstick remains stationary.

Hold the other chopstick between the tips of the index
and middle fingers, steady its upper half against the base
of the index finger, and use the tips of the thumb to keep
it in place.
A bit like holding a pencil.

To pick up things, move the upper chopstick with index
and middle fingers.
After a little practice, you will be able to use chopsticks
like an expert. Normally most foods served are chopped, so that it may
be easily handled with chopsticks. Sometimes you may need to use the chopsticks to cut
food in case of soft food; Tofu, fish, etc
Chopsticks are used for cooking
as well as eating. They are good for serving noodles, retrieving
deep-fried foods, beating eggs, and stir-frying. One can
even buy extra-long "cooking chopsticks," which
makes these kitchen tasks even easier.